tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8342544694680738280.post6906315495603472161..comments2023-06-01T04:34:34.526-04:00Comments on Charmed I'm Sure: Lay her down in her gingerbread coffin/ she's so pretty/ laid out in white . . .Deborah Castellanohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16715780448380813436noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8342544694680738280.post-45675508875237538822010-10-18T18:16:17.639-04:002010-10-18T18:16:17.639-04:00Your post has made me wonder how many past version...Your post has made me wonder how many past versions of me I need to let go of. Thank you.CousinLindahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18347408824243885196noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8342544694680738280.post-85721850461285969532010-10-17T11:41:44.642-04:002010-10-17T11:41:44.642-04:00Wow. I was married for 15 years, been divorced for...Wow. I was married for 15 years, been divorced for 5. Our 20th wedding anniversary would have been last month. <br /><br />Even though the divorce was the best thing for me and my daughters, I *STILL* grieve, 6 years after the debacle started ending. I see friends with their partners, and wonder when/if I will have someone to share life with, besides my growing children. I do not regret the leaving, but miss the future-that-could-have-been that I had invested so heavily in, that meant nothing to him in the end.<br /><br />Thank you for sharing your story. I think I may have a clue how to finish mine and move into the next episode :-)Pagolesherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04387280206404863136noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8342544694680738280.post-57086025039843995092010-10-17T02:43:41.454-04:002010-10-17T02:43:41.454-04:00HI, just stopping by to tell you I gave you 3 awar...HI, just stopping by to tell you I gave you 3 awards. Stop by my blog to check them out.<br /><br />http://collegewitchexperiences.blogspot.com/2010/10/unheard-of-3-award-night.htmlAmberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15736353881183757411noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8342544694680738280.post-88319500005336903612010-10-11T21:01:49.631-04:002010-10-11T21:01:49.631-04:00Thanks for this post, I have been trying to find d...Thanks for this post, I have been trying to find different ways to heal and this is a wonderful way to help move on and heal. Letting go of the me-that-was, is something each of us has to do at one time or another. So again thankyou for sharing your process, making a little straw poppet and embuing it with all our hurts then allowing ourselves to let that person go, what an amazing way to heal.Faerie Sagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13755963393512150190noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8342544694680738280.post-29121904158885553662010-10-11T15:21:26.238-04:002010-10-11T15:21:26.238-04:00I've been there too. I was married a short tim...I've been there too. I was married a short time to someone who I'd known since I was 3. We'd been together since school and I thought it was forever. Divorce does hurt but it does get better and you do emerge like a phoenix from a flame.<br /><br />Hugs<br /><br />LynAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18426902630904762148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8342544694680738280.post-54319286959842048712010-10-11T12:42:46.681-04:002010-10-11T12:42:46.681-04:00My heart hurts for you and your little bride.My heart hurts for you and your little bride.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02412754456927982692noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8342544694680738280.post-16435765014282269252010-10-10T23:44:40.184-04:002010-10-10T23:44:40.184-04:00I've read and re-read this post since you put ...I've read and re-read this post since you put it up. It sounds so familiar, so much like how I've felt and what I've thought over the past two-ish years after my own break-up (much different circumstances, but some similar emotional responses). Thank you for putting these words out for others to read, because I could never figure out how to do it for myself, or how to apologize and heal the me-who-was.Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15137549136106076122noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8342544694680738280.post-38316039888558035502010-10-10T17:48:07.168-04:002010-10-10T17:48:07.168-04:00sniff. I'm sorry too. Divorce is a greiving ...sniff. I'm sorry too. Divorce is a greiving process. One that takes as long as having a death of a loved one. The marriage and your bride were loved ones. It's Ok to grieve. It's normal to feel sadness and loss. It sucks.K(Banterings of a Basketcase)https://www.blogger.com/profile/17926370065535783676noreply@blogger.com